SEXUAL FANTASIES
Sexual fantasies are imaginary mental representations that stimulate and accompany sexual acts, as with dream interpretation, can give us access to knowledge of unconscious and repressed desires, in addition to representing our tastes in sexual matters. Should we hide our fantasies? The fact that these remain in our subjective and unrealized world confer a d
THE MYTH OF ORGASM
Our socioculture that governs the opinions of how we think and feel has made us slaves of performance, the intrinsic value of an element is only measured by the maximum amount of benefit we obtain from it. Within our private and intimate sphere we have also succumbed to the tendency to measure all events quantitatively, […]
SEX AND STRESS
One of the serious consequences of stress in our body is the inhibition of sexual desire, we do not realize this decrease in libido until its levels have not fallen drastically. When not being able to make a disconnection of the daily problems, the dedication that demands the sexual act is practically impossible, instilling the […]
IMPOSITIONS IN SEX BLOCK US
Our sexual instinct takes millions of years to perpetuate the race and is activated biologically through specific hormones automatically, in fact sexual arousal can’t occur at will. But for human beings the only purpose of sexuality is not procreation but also the obtaining of pleasure and this is where our rational mind can complicate the […]
SEXOPATHY: ADDICTION TO SEX
Sex addiction is an uncontrollable need for sex of all kinds, as in all addictions, impulsive desire is the root cause of all addictive behavior, it is this uncontrollable compulsion that needs to be directly and adequately addressed so that there can be a true remedy. Sex addiction is a chronic psycho-organic disorder that requires […]
AGGRESSIVENESS IN SEX
The aggressive drive is a response to the disturbance caused by different basic needs, there is a close relationship between the circuits of aggression and those of reproduction in the limbic brain, due to this concordance we might think that this would explain why some people experience pleasure with violence or have aggressive sexual behaviors. […]
THE DEVELOPMENT OF LIBIDO
Our libidinous energy is formed as we acquire years of life and assimilating in our psyche all the physical laws that define our possibilities of development, it regulates all our instinctive activity that has for its object the attainment of pleasure and follows an evolution from birth until your complete emotional development. The libido progresses [&helli
PARAPHILIA
Paraphilia is when the excitement and sexual gratification of the person depend exclusively on the recurrent fantasy or realization of a special and unusual act, that becomes the main focus of sexual behavior, paraphilias are atypical variations of sexuality that constitute a sexual compulsion or an addiction. It usually has its beginning in childhood and [&
SELF-BLAME ON SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION
There are innumerable prejudices and beliefs about sex that have determined many repressive and psychopathological behaviors, and have caused great suffering because of the dysfunctional way of approaching relationships. It is important to understand how we were introduced to our sexual awakening and what kind of messages we received in our family environmen
SEXO DESPUÉS DE ABUSOS
Lo primero que acompaña al adulto que ha sido abusado sexualmente en la infancia es un sufrimiento intenso que no cesa, el abuso se intenta reprimir pero desde las sombras el incidente dirige la vida psíquica y sexual sin tregua. El suceso no tiene solo el efecto devastador del hecho en sí sino que además […]